I just went thru this exercise. Started with flush and refill, new cap and t-stat. Ended up fixing it with a new radiator. My symptoms were the same as yours, started slowly and ended up just overheating in b to b traffic. Just went with the original 3 row rad and the problem went away. Like they say start with the cheap items and work your way up. Hope yours gos away before you get to the rad replacement. LOL